Tom Hargreaves

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Tom Hargreaves

Couples and relationships   COSRT member

Relationship therapist working with communication breakdown and repair after long silences.

Register, insurance and supervision checked Checked by a person before this profile went live, and checked again every year. It does not mean we recommend Tom over anyone else.

Edinburgh In person Step-free access English

What we checked

  • COSRT registration
  • Qualification certificates
  • Indemnity insurance
  • Supervision arrangement
  • Identity
Fee
£85a session
First call
Free 15 minutes, no obligation
Waiting time
Askchecked monthly
Sessions
In person50 minutes

In my own words

Couples usually arrive later than they meant to. By the time two people book, the same argument has often been running for years with the words changed slightly each time.

My job is not to decide who is right. It is to slow the conversation down enough that you can both hear what is actually being said underneath it, which is frequently not what is being shouted.

I work with communication that has broken down, with affairs and the long repair afterwards, and with couples deciding whether to stay together at all. Ending well is legitimate work and I will not push you towards staying.

I see couples in person in central Edinburgh. Sessions run for an hour rather than fifty minutes, because two people need the extra ten. I offer a free call first, and I would encourage you both to be on it, so nobody arrives feeling they were signed up by the other one.

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Approach

What we checked

  • COSRT registration, on the public register
  • Qualification certificates seen
  • Professional indemnity insurance in date
  • Clinical supervision arrangement confirmed
  • Identity confirmed

Last checked 21 August 2026. We re-check every twelve months, and the badge comes off the day a registration or an insurance policy lapses. You can check the COSRT register yourself. How we verify

Where sessions happen

The shaded area is the EH3 district, not an address. Exact details come from the therapist when you arrange a session.

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Contacting two or three people is normal, and nobody minds.

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